Wednesday, January 12, 2011

So I'm back to the Velvet Underground... Or, I Went Grocery Shopping and I Liked It

So I'm back to the velvet underground
Back to the floor, that I love
To a room with some lace and paper flowers,
Back to the gypsy
That I was
To the gypsy...
That I was.
Gypsy by Ms. Stephanie Lynn Nicks

Hello, everyone. I'm back! I'm not sure if the PA burbs qualify as the Velvet Underground, but, like Stevie meant in her song, I'm back to the place I love and feel most comfortable, and where I'm learning to live alone again.

Where am I back from? An amazing Caribbean cruise with my kids. Here are a few pics to prove my point.

This first pic is of the beautiful Magen's Bay in St. Thomas.

The second pic is me pointing at a female pirate's booby. Yup, you read that right. Apparently, this nice Irish gal, Anne Bonney, tracked down her runaway husband in the Virgin Islands and murdered him. She also slept with many ship captains and then killed them. She was quite the role model in her day.

Pic 3: Adam & I sharing our first cocktail before we set sail.

Pic 4: Movies Under the Stars on board the Ruby Princess. We watched more football than we did movies.

Pic 5: Ethan, me, and Adam after Ethan's birthday dinner at the Crown Grill - think Morton's Steakhouse at sea.

Pic 6: Ethan and Adam in the Michelangelo dining room.

Pic 7: Ethan - on his birthday! - swimming at St. Maarten after we went helmet diving.

The cruise was filled with many wonderful experiences, including a new book idea. Sitting in the library on board the ship, I watched the ocean pass by and scribbled the first five pages to a new women's fiction story. I'm very excited about it, however, I still have to finish editing my YA novel. According to my editor, this draft may well be "the one" - the final edit before AA takes the book out on submission. So, in order to finish YA Draft 7 and forge ahead on WF Draft 1, I need to get "discipline." Some people get religion, others get milk, I have to get discipline.

Where do I find this so-called "discipline?" Can I save up cereal box tops and send away for it? Buy it on Find it on one of those late-night infomercials? Is it tucked away next to the gold in the California hills? I'm hoping it's located back in the calm, turquoise waters of the Caribbean, because that's a damn fine place to be. (Which is why, I've already booked my next cruise for later this year!!!)

Along with pondering self-discipline, I learned several important things about myself on this trip:

1) I need to eat breakfast.
I know this sounds like a big, fat "DUH!!!" but I've never been a breakfast eater. My normal schedule is to get up around 8AM and have a protein shake around 10AM. Then, maybe lunch, maybe not, and a big dinner. WHAT an idiot.

So, get this. (To those of you who know me well, you may want to sit down for this next part. Seriously. Consider yourself warned.) What's one of the first things I did after coming home from my trip? I went to the grocery store! (I hear a lot of thuds out there. I hope there are defibrillators nearby.) True story. I went to the grocery story and (same warning applies) I LIKED IT!!! Katy Perry, move over. Kissing girls is nothing. I went grocery shopping and I liked it...

For those of you who don't know me well, I'd rather walk naked in Antarctica or worse, go moose hunting with Sarah Palin in Alaska (where she can see Russia from her house!) than buy groceries.

But there I went. I bought fresh fruit (not the cut-up kind - actual whole melons!!! You can cut them yourself! Who knew?!), brown eggs (from cage-free, vegetarian-fed hens - yup, I'm a card-carrying, liberal tree-hugger), low-fat, whole-wheat English Muffins, and orange-pineapple juice. I also got green and red peppers, cheese, Rosemary crackers, and shrimp (peeled and de-veined) to go with my wonderful red wine habit. (Healthy in moderation, or so me and the Mayo Clinic believe.)

2) My bed should not double as my office. (Don't argue with me. I'm on a roll.)
So, I've chosen to move my lap top down to the kitchen and do my writing there instead of sitting like a lazy bum all day in bed. I also intend to make myself tea. Every day. That's right, you heard me - TEA! (Chai with skim milk and sugar, if you must know.)

For those of you who do know me well, you're probably thinking, "Who are you and what have you done with our spoiled, rotten, lazy, JAP, Debbie?"

Never fear, she's right here; just going through a major life transformation. I'm taking care of myself now. There's no one to blame but me if I'm not as healthy and happy as I can be. And I hate being wrong, so, I may as well try and get it right.

I'm finding taking care of myself is like kissing girls and going grocery shopping.

I like it. ;-)

Thanks to Stephen Powell for the inspiration for this post.


Tere Kirkland said...

LOL, sounds like you had a great vacation. I'm not much of a breakfast person, either, but I love grocery shopping. I just hate cooking. My husband is so much better at it than I am, but I also hate to do the dishes, so I can't win.

Julie said...

Fantastic blog! And sounds like you're making new adventures everywhere you look... like in the fridge. :)

Amy Sue Nathan said...

You're on your way! I'm proud of you!

Sharla said...

Whoo hoo! You go girl! I hate grocery shopping too, but probably because it's those "have to" buys just to keep up with what goes out. I used to like it more when I was single...could buy what I wanted and cook what I wanted to play around with.


Debra L. Schubert said...

Tere, I highly recommend vacations. ;-)

Debra L. Schubert said...

Julie, Did I mention I cleaned my fridge as well? I'm sorry, did you just faint?

Debra L. Schubert said...

Amy, Thanks, Amy. I'm proud of you, too, my dear. ;-)))

Debra L. Schubert said...

Sharla, I guess that's the key - I'm cooking just for me. What a treat!!!

Robin said...

Wow! That is a lot of revelation for one vacation. I am about to undergo something similar. My laptop is about to get moved from my bed, too. For the last year and a half, I have pretty much lived in my room. Now, my mom is taking it over and making it our office. My bed is going and I will now be sleeping in what used to be the guest room. So, bye bye bedroom and hello office. I am not sure I will be able to actually work in an office. It sounds terribly productive. We shall see. In a couple of weeks we will have to compare notes...

Kristin Rae said...

A cruise sounds lovely! And there really are time when I LOVE grocery shopping. Aisle by aisle, reading labels, picking out fresh veggies... sometimes I'm just not in the mood.

And be careful--if you do all your writing in the kitchen, you just might keep eating all. day. long.

Debra L. Schubert said...

Robin, Will you have a window in your new office? I love looking at nature when I write. If not, find some artwork you like. Visual inspiration is priceless. ;-)

Debra L. Schubert said...

Kristin, I'll heed your warning! I've never been a grazer - hopefully, that won't be part of my ongoing transformation!

Jeffe Kennedy said...

Hooray for major life transformations!

Debra L. Schubert said...

Jeffe, Amen, sista!

Jenn McKay said...

great photos! looks like you had a good cruise.

editing sounds like hard, boring work. Hopefully it's not too bad :)

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Debra L. Schubert said...

Jenn, Thanks for your comment. The cruise was indeed incredible, and believe it or not, editing can be fun!

Karen Walker said...

Deb, welcome back! Hubs and I went on a Caribbean cruise over Christmas as well. Same places you mention here. You sound more like your old self than you have in a long, long time. Love and hugs,

Debra L. Schubert said...

Karen, Thanks so much for your comment. Yes, I'm starting to feel "normal" again - maybe even better than normal! Isn't the Caribbean wonderful? I can't get enough of it. ;-)

Jemi Fraser said...

The pictures are awesome!!! I'm so glad you and the boys had that time together :)

Good luck with the healthier choices. I love Chai tea & drink it every day - but I like it black better!

Debra L. Schubert said...

Jemi, It's always nice to "see" you here. Healthy choices are great. It's amazing how easy it is NOT to choose them... ;-)

Kathryn Magendie said...

This post is so full of energy and fun and I love it!

Love the photos too!

Oh, but I'd love to write about that woman who tracked down her hb and etc!

Grocery shopping - lawd! GOod think GMR likes to do it -- lawd!

Debra L. Schubert said...

Kat, So glad you enjoyed the post! Yeah, that pirate woman sure lead an interesting life. Might make for some mighty good fiction. Hmmm...

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jdcoughlin said...

Wow! Sounds like you've been on some life-amping trampoline thing. Of course, a Caribbean cruise is truly best thing to get you rolling. Just why do they keep all that beauty to themselves anyway?
I didn't know you avoided grocers. I love the grocery store. I walk down every aisle, imagine all the things I love to eat, and then make them. It's very creative. If you're in Whole Foods. Not so much at Walmart.

Debra L. Schubert said...

Judith, You love the grocery store because you cook. My mom is the same way. She'll stop at the grocery store at least once a day. I'm doing my best to generate a love affair with cooking and, by extension, the grocery store. Wish me luck!

Fragrant Liar said...

Vacations are such a great time for renewing in so many different ways. Glad you and your boys enjoyed the trip and that you're having a glorious life. :-)

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